Ross (the Boss) of NDG's Blog

  Every morning, long before many of us begin our day, NDG is already at work. Someone is stocking the grocery-store shelves. Someone is baking bread. Someone is driving a bus. Someone is sweeping a floor. Someone is collecting garbage. Someone is opening a café. Someone is preparing a classroom. Someone is delivering packages. Someone is caring for another person's child, parent or pet. Someone is repairing something most of us will never even notice was broken. And throughout the day, thousands of people perform little acts that keep our neighbourhood functioning. Most of them are almost invisible. We notice when the garbage isn't collected. We notice when the bus doesn't arrive. We notice when the store shelf is empty. We notice when something doesn't work. But how often do we notice the person who quietly makes sure that it does? I would love A NuVo World in NDG to develop a very different habit. Thank the People Behind the Day Imagine if we ...

  There is a subtle difference between being welcome and being invited . A person can be welcome at a community event and never attend. A neighbour can be welcome to join a conversation and remain standing alone. A newcomer can be welcome in NDG and still spend months without anyone asking them to come along. Sometimes people don't need an open door. They need somebody to walk over, look them in the eye and say: “Come with us.” I think those three words could help transform NDG. Come With Us Imagine a group of neighbours heading for coffee and noticing someone sitting alone in the lobby. “We're going for coffee. Come with us.” A few people are walking around the park. “We're going for a walk. Come with us.” Children are playing basketball and another child is watching from the sidelines. “Want to play with us?” Several neighbours are sitting outside on a summer evening. Someone they barely know walks past. Instead of simply waving: “Grab a chair!” These...

  Every day, people throughout NDG notice things. A resident walks past an empty patch of land and thinks: “That could be a beautiful little garden.” A teenager looks at a blank wall and imagines a mural. A parent notices children playing on a street corner and thinks: “Wouldn't a basketball hoop be wonderful here?” A senior wishes there were a bench halfway between home and the grocery store. A merchant wonders whether several businesses could combine deliveries for neighbours who have difficulty getting out. Someone looks at an unused room in an apartment building and imagines a little library. Someone else sees an isolated neighbour and thinks of starting a weekly coffee hour. Most of these ideas disappear. Not because they are bad ideas. Because we have become accustomed to thinking: “Who am I to do anything about it?” I would like to change that. In A NuVo World, good ideas belong to everyone. Imagine if NDG developed a new community habit: Whenever someone s...

  There are many serious things we want to accomplish in NDG. We want to reduce loneliness. Help people who are struggling. Make food more accessible. Strengthen families. Support seniors. Create opportunities for young people. Build stronger relationships between neighbours. All of these things matter enormously. But while we're busy trying to make life better , I don't want us to forget something equally important: Life is supposed to be enjoyed. What if one of the defining characteristics of A NuVo World in NDG became something wonderfully simple? We create more reasons for people to smile. Not once a year at a major festival. Everywhere. All the time. Imagine walking through NDG on an ordinary Tuesday and discovering a man playing piano outside a café. A few blocks away, three children have covered a sidewalk with colourful chalk drawings. Someone has placed a bubble machine beside a park bench. A retired couple is teaching people how to dance. A restaur...

  We talk a lot about building community through friendship, kindness and connection. But there is another kind of community that matters enormously: Knowing that when something goes wrong, you are not completely on your own. A senior wakes up after a heavy snowfall and cannot safely clear the front steps. A parent suddenly needs someone to pick up milk because a sick child is sleeping. A neighbour's car won't start. Someone has to go to the hospital and needs their dog walked. A new arrival doesn't understand an important letter they received. A light bulb needs changing at the top of a ladder. A frightened person simply needs somebody nearby for ten minutes. None of these situations necessarily requires an organization. Sometimes they require just one neighbour willing to answer the phone. So here is an idea for the NDG I hope we can build: Someone to Call Imagine if every apartment floor, building or small section of a street had several neighbours who exc...

  Most of us have things sitting in closets, cupboards, basements and garages that we use perhaps once or twice a year. A drill. A ladder. A folding table. A cake pan. A sewing machine. Camping equipment. A pressure washer. Gardening tools. A suitcase. A set of chairs for a family gathering. Meanwhile, somewhere three doors away, somebody may be heading to a store to buy exactly the thing we already have. What if NDG developed a wonderfully simple new habit? Ask a Neighbour First. Before buying something we will rarely use, we ask: “Does anybody nearby have one I could borrow?” It sounds like an idea about saving money. And it certainly could do that. But I think something much more important would happen. We would begin depending upon one another again. There is a peculiar thing about borrowing a ladder from a neighbour. You have to knock on their door. You have to talk. You learn their name. Perhaps you discover they are repairing their kitchen. Perhaps ...