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The Empty Seat

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  Yesterday we talked about two chairs and the extraordinary things that can happen when two neighbours sit down and discover one another's stories. Today I want to talk about a different chair. The empty one. Imagine a neighbourhood barbecue in NDG. The tables are full. Children are playing. Music is playing. People are laughing. And at every table there is deliberately one empty chair. Not because somebody cancelled. Because somebody might arrive. Someone new to NDG. Someone walking past. Someone who came alone. Someone who doesn't know anybody. Someone wondering, Do I belong here? That empty chair quietly answers: Yes. There's room for you. A Community Can Be Friendly Without Being Easy to Enter This is something worth thinking about. We can be surrounded by wonderful, friendly people and still feel alone. Walk into a room where everyone already knows one another and you'll understand why. People aren't being unkind. They're simply talki...

🎬 COME AWAY WITH ME — THE TRAILER IS HERE!

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Today, a dream became something we can actually watch. The first trailer for  Come Away With Me  is now online. And as I sit here watching these 105 seconds, I find myself thinking about how unlikely this whole adventure has been. A short time ago, I had a story. I had an iMac. I had an AI I affectionately call  Einstein . And I had a dream: Could one ordinary person, working from home with artificial intelligence, create a beautiful feature film and somehow offer it to the world as a Christmas gift? Today, we took a very big step toward answering that question. Come Away With Me  is the story of a life. My life. But I hope, ultimately, it becomes a story about  all of our lives . It is about dreams pursued and dreams lost. About falling down and beginning again. About finding love when you least expect it. About neighbours, strangers and the extraordinary importance of seemingly insignificant moments. About discovering that perhaps the greatest things in life a...

The Two-Chair Habit

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  There is a simple picture of community that I love. Two chairs. Not a committee. Not a building. Not a program. Just two chairs facing each other. Because before we can transform a neighbourhood, we have to know the people who live in it. And sometimes that begins by sitting down. We Know Faces Before We Know Stories Think about how many people you recognize in NDG. The woman you see walking her dog every morning. The man who always catches the same bus. The cashier at the grocery store. The parent standing at the school bus stop. The neighbour you've passed in the hallway for five years. We know their faces. We wave. We say hello. But often we don't know their stories. Where did they grow up? What do they love? What have they survived? What are they proud of? What do they dream about? What do they know that we don't? Every person walking past us is carrying an entire lifetime that we may know absolutely nothing about. What If We Became Curious ...

What If NDG Became the Neighbourhood That Celebrated the Good?

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  Every neighbourhood has problems. Potholes need fixing. People struggle. Organizations need volunteers. Families need support. There will always be something that could be better. And we should work on those things. But there is another question I think we should ask more often: What is already going right? Because every single day throughout NDG, people are doing wonderful things that almost nobody hears about. A crossing guard remembers a child's name. A restaurant slips an extra meal to somebody who needs it. A neighbour carries groceries upstairs. A teacher stays a little longer with a struggling student. Someone picks up litter that isn't theirs. A teenager helps an elderly neighbour with a computer. A church prepares food. A business owner gives someone a break. A stranger holds a door. A bus driver waits another few seconds for someone running toward the stop. None of these moments will make the evening news. But perhaps they should make our neigh...

What If NDG Became the Neighbourhood of the Extra Five Minutes?

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  We live in a world that is constantly telling us to hurry. Get there faster. Finish sooner. Move on to the next thing. We schedule our days so tightly that sometimes another human being can begin to feel like an interruption. But I wonder what might happen if, throughout NDG, we deliberately began leaving something very small unscheduled. Five minutes. Five minutes to stop. Five minutes to listen. Five minutes to help. Five minutes to notice what we might otherwise walk past. Because sometimes five minutes can change someone's entire day. The Conversation We Almost Didn't Have Imagine you're walking home with groceries. You see a neighbour you know. Normally you might wave and keep going. But today you stop. “How are you?” They begin with the usual answer. “Fine.” Then something changes. Maybe they tell you their spouse is in the hospital. Maybe they're worried about their child. Maybe they just lost their job. Maybe they're lonely. Or ma...

What If NDG Became the Neighbourhood Where We Asked, “Who’s Missing?”

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  There is a question I think every strong community should learn to ask. Not: “How many people came?” But: “Who’s missing?” It is a very different question. When we organize a community dinner, neighbourhood gathering, church event, children's activity or block party, it is natural to look at the people who showed up. But what about the people who didn't? The senior who rarely leaves the apartment anymore. The neighbour recovering from surgery. The single parent who couldn't find childcare. The newcomer who didn't know they were welcome. The person living with a disability for whom simply getting there is difficult. The neighbour struggling financially who worried there might be a cost. The person who has been lonely for so long that attending something alone feels almost impossible. Sometimes the people who would benefit most from community are the people least able to walk through its door. From Open Doors to Open Arms We often believe something is ...

What If NDG Became the Neighbourhood Where Everyone Had Something to Give?

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  When we talk about helping people, we often divide the world into two groups. The people who need help . And the people who give help . But I think that misses something beautiful about human beings. Because the person who needs groceries delivered may be a wonderful listener. The senior who can no longer shovel a walkway may know how to repair almost anything. The teenager who doesn't have much money may have endless patience teaching someone how to use a computer. The newcomer learning English or French may speak three other languages. The person struggling financially may make the best soup on the block. The child who cannot contribute money can draw a picture that makes an elderly neighbour smile. And someone who feels they have very little left to offer may possess exactly the gift another person needs. Everyone Has Something One of my dreams for A NuVo World is that we never build a community divided into helpers and helped . Instead, I would love us to build...