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What If NDG Became a Neighbourhood Where We Asked, “What Can You Teach Me?”

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  Every person walking through NDG knows something you don't. The retired carpenter knows how to repair a chair. The grandmother upstairs knows a recipe her family has made for generations. The teenager knows how to do things with a phone that mystify half the adults around them. The newcomer from another country speaks a language you don't understand and carries traditions you may never have experienced. The gardener knows which flowers will survive in that impossible patch of shade. The musician knows three chords that could get you started on guitar. The mechanic knows why your car is making that strange noise. The child knows a game you've forgotten how to play. The senior on the park bench knows what NDG looked like fifty years ago. And the person you pass every morning may possess an extraordinary skill you will never discover unless somebody asks. “What can you teach me?” I think that could become a wonderful A NuVo World habit. We often think of educat...

What If NDG Became a Neighbourhood Where We Left Places Better Than We Found Them?

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  There is a simple principle I have always loved: Leave it better than you found it. We usually associate that idea with camping. You arrive at a beautiful place, enjoy it, clean up after yourself and perhaps pick up something somebody else left behind. Then you leave. And because you were there, the place is slightly better than it was before. What if we applied that principle not merely to parks and campsites—but to our entire neighbourhood? What if thousands of people in NDG quietly adopted one little habit: Wherever I go today, I will leave something slightly better. Not dramatically better. Not perfectly better. Just better . You walk past a piece of litter. Pick it up. You enter your apartment lobby and notice a flyer lying on the floor. Put it where it belongs. Someone has left a shopping cart where it blocks the sidewalk. Move it. A chair at the café is sticking into the aisle. Push it in. A branch has fallen across a pathway. Move it aside. A neighb...

What If NDG Became a Neighbourhood Where We Introduced People to Each Other?

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  There is a wonderfully simple act of community-building that almost anyone can do. It costs nothing. It requires no organization, funding, committee or program. And yet, done often enough, it could quietly weave thousands of separate lives into a genuine community. Introduce two people who should know each other. Most of us live inside little circles. We know someone from our apartment building. Someone from the dog park. Someone from work. Someone from church. Someone from the grocery store. Someone from our morning walk. Someone who owns a local business. Someone who loves gardening, music, sports, cooking, animals or helping others. But often these people don't know one another. What if we became the bridges? Imagine you're speaking with a neighbour who loves painting and you remember another resident who paints too. Instead of merely thinking, They would probably like each other , you say: “You know who you should meet?” And then you introduce them. P...

What If NDG Became a Neighbourhood That Celebrated the People Who Keep It Running?

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  Every morning, long before many of us begin our day, NDG is already at work. Someone is stocking the grocery-store shelves. Someone is baking bread. Someone is driving a bus. Someone is sweeping a floor. Someone is collecting garbage. Someone is opening a café. Someone is preparing a classroom. Someone is delivering packages. Someone is caring for another person's child, parent or pet. Someone is repairing something most of us will never even notice was broken. And throughout the day, thousands of people perform little acts that keep our neighbourhood functioning. Most of them are almost invisible. We notice when the garbage isn't collected. We notice when the bus doesn't arrive. We notice when the store shelf is empty. We notice when something doesn't work. But how often do we notice the person who quietly makes sure that it does? I would love A NuVo World in NDG to develop a very different habit. Thank the People Behind the Day Imagine if we ...

What If NDG Became a Neighbourhood That Asked, “Who Hasn’t Been Invited Yet?”

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  There is a subtle difference between being welcome and being invited . A person can be welcome at a community event and never attend. A neighbour can be welcome to join a conversation and remain standing alone. A newcomer can be welcome in NDG and still spend months without anyone asking them to come along. Sometimes people don't need an open door. They need somebody to walk over, look them in the eye and say: “Come with us.” I think those three words could help transform NDG. Come With Us Imagine a group of neighbours heading for coffee and noticing someone sitting alone in the lobby. “We're going for coffee. Come with us.” A few people are walking around the park. “We're going for a walk. Come with us.” Children are playing basketball and another child is watching from the sidelines. “Want to play with us?” Several neighbours are sitting outside on a summer evening. Someone they barely know walks past. Instead of simply waving: “Grab a chair!” These...

What If NDG Became a Neighbourhood That Never Let a Good Idea Die?

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  Every day, people throughout NDG notice things. A resident walks past an empty patch of land and thinks: “That could be a beautiful little garden.” A teenager looks at a blank wall and imagines a mural. A parent notices children playing on a street corner and thinks: “Wouldn't a basketball hoop be wonderful here?” A senior wishes there were a bench halfway between home and the grocery store. A merchant wonders whether several businesses could combine deliveries for neighbours who have difficulty getting out. Someone looks at an unused room in an apartment building and imagines a little library. Someone else sees an isolated neighbour and thinks of starting a weekly coffee hour. Most of these ideas disappear. Not because they are bad ideas. Because we have become accustomed to thinking: “Who am I to do anything about it?” I would like to change that. In A NuVo World, good ideas belong to everyone. Imagine if NDG developed a new community habit: Whenever someone s...

What If NDG Became a Neighbourhood That Made Room for Joy?

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  There are many serious things we want to accomplish in NDG. We want to reduce loneliness. Help people who are struggling. Make food more accessible. Strengthen families. Support seniors. Create opportunities for young people. Build stronger relationships between neighbours. All of these things matter enormously. But while we're busy trying to make life better , I don't want us to forget something equally important: Life is supposed to be enjoyed. What if one of the defining characteristics of A NuVo World in NDG became something wonderfully simple? We create more reasons for people to smile. Not once a year at a major festival. Everywhere. All the time. Imagine walking through NDG on an ordinary Tuesday and discovering a man playing piano outside a café. A few blocks away, three children have covered a sidewalk with colourful chalk drawings. Someone has placed a bubble machine beside a park bench. A retired couple is teaching people how to dance. A restaur...